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The Golden Word, the Cupper Word…

May 04, 2008, 06:45 PM [Reply]

This post is the result of my meditations about one my earlier post Charisma.

 

 

 

I was asking myself, why some people can convince us and others cannot?

 

The Golden Word, the Cupper Word…  

 

 

 Every one knows, that in our life there are a lot of words, but every word has its own weight and behind it is hidden different power and energy.    

 

 

 

Words have different depth and if we tell thousands of words every day, how do you think, do they have the same value and weight?

 

 

Of course, not. The power of every word depends of our state and emotions, depends from which soul’s depth it comes.     

 

 

 

For example, if a person is always lying and is not sincere, we can feel this very quickly and his words don’t touch us at all.    From another hand, if a word is spoken by a person with the deep belief and is sincere, such word can do miracles and sometimes can change the history or flow of our life.  

 

 

 

The real true words come not from our minds, but from our hearts.  

 

 

 

Look at revolutionaries, prophets or great poets and writers, why their words moved people? Because when they spoke them, they believed in it, their hearts were full of fire and it was the meaning of their life. And only that supernatural power of these words makes them still alive. Such words sound like mysterious music, like a magic which is lasting forever.    

 

 

 

Look at the same mantras or prayers, why people repeat them for centuries? Some languages are already dead, but the words are still alive.

 

Our ancestors were in general more careful about their words, specially the written ones. As I mentioned before in my post about Runes, people were looking at written words like at spells that had power to heal or to kill, to protect yourself or to destroy your enemies.    

 

 

 

And now have a look at our everyday life. We get everyday a lot of newspapers with thousands of words, we watch at TV news, sometimes without any importance for us, surf in the Internet reading sometimes a lot of trash.  What is the real value of all these dead words?     

 

 

 

Our days it is completely lost the meaning of the saying : “The Word is the Knowledge”. We forgot what Knowledge means and replaced it by another word: Information. But the meaning of these two words is different.    Knowledge was something sacred, Information is something light, without big weight.

This is why very often, when we tell something, we just say “ …and bla, bla, bla, bla…”, that really means “nothing”.    

 

 

To express my thoughts more symbolic, I will say that we can repeat a word a hundred times and it still will be as made from “IRON”: we can repeat the same word fifty times and it will be as made from “CUPPER”; we can tell it twenty times and it will be the “SILVER” one; but another person can tell the same word just ones, but we will react at it as it is the “GOLDEN” one.    

 

 

 

 

A person can try to convince you about something and speak about it for hours, but the more he will try, the less you will believe him. And another person will tell you something just ones, but from the deepest part of his heart and it will motivate you for immediate action.    

 

 

 

If you want to convince or motivate somebody, at beginning think by yourself very deep about the situation; live with it for a while; insert a part of your heart and soul into your thoughts and only after this speak the words.

Not thousands of them, just few, but full of energy and feelings, and you will see the effect of it.

Life around you will start to change for the best.    

 

 

 

Make your words GOLDEN.

 

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself

May 04, 2008, 09:37 PM [Reply]

I know you use the word heart in a methaphoric way, but lets not forget that everything comes from the mind, our emotions, words, actions, even what we know as reality comes from the mind...also the golden words as you call them...and I do believe in simplicity and brevity...what can not be explain in few words is not worth explaining...the ability to summarize is very important and rare in people...another good post...seems you are in a neverending good posts spree...keep on...definitely got my vote...

"To define is to limit" Oscar Wilde

May 04, 2008, 10:36 PM [Reply]

I think that each meaning is terrible and important though I can also say the word by easily putting out various words to the mouth.

I think that it is only human on the earth that uses properly a lot of words in the so much.

There is a thing taken in a different meaning on the side heard that receptivity is different by the spoken side and the heard side, too.

The word is difficult....

Nice post..

Thank you.

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May 05, 2008, 02:34 AM [Reply]

voted for you

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May 06, 2008, 02:04 AM [Reply]

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May 07, 2008, 12:03 PM [Reply]

I think that the impact of the word depends on the person who receive it.Good post

May 09, 2008, 11:17 AM [Reply]

It is easier to tell the context of the "word" when face to face with that person as the eyes tell alot. Nice post

Be well & happy

May 11, 2008, 05:07 AM [Reply]

VOTED!!!! AGREE, this was a GOOD post!!!

"Stop 'telling it like it is' and start telling it like you want it to be!"

May 11, 2008, 10:12 AM [Reply]

Voted great post

Kathy

May 16, 2008, 05:02 PM [Reply]

I like your post; The one I made about hope being evil (http://blog.bitcomet.com/post/24124/) was made to illustrate the absurdity of those who would crush hope, by showing the silliness of the hope crushing mentallity and how insane it sounds to see it actually spelled out- it was meant to make one think about how there are those out there who would crush hope, yet to HEAR their message is only possible if you agree with their insanity; we all have a portion of ourselves that sees things darkly, though we seldom confront it, and so have little contact and understanding of it's methods. Hardly anyone could be so negative as the speaker in my post, and the inventive WORDS were intentional, thusly it was meant as a point of humor. One doen't have to take everything quite so literally, the meaning of things can be quite a bit deeper than first appearances might indicate- your reaction is understandable, in fact desirable, as long as you don't think too poorly of my methods. Again, I enjoy your post! Have a great day!

May 16, 2008, 05:11 PM [Reply]

On another note, with regard to your post, I find that in life the action of repeating one words dilutes their meaning- especially when dealing with children.

if you tell your kids to clean their room more than once, they instinctively know that you did'nt mean it the first time, and therefore place less weight on the meaning of anything you do or say thereafter. They are in a constant search for boundaries, so they can know the extent of your love for them, though we often let them exceed those boundaries without concern for how to properly patrol those frontiers, and then they are "out of control". I agree, words have meaning beyond our comprehension, usually.

Thanks for the thought provoking post

May 21, 2008, 07:03 AM [Reply]

It's amazing the effect they produce the things we say. More often than not we realize what we say and even less for the consequences.

The words are a reflection of our thoughts and feelings. The first thing that happens is we have a thought that may be good or bad, then, if not cut that thought, it can be transformed into words and then into shares. That's why it's important even revise our thoughts because everything starts there.

A good speaker is not necessarily one who knows more words, more well known is that the use at the right time and in the right tone (happy, sad, anger, anger, passive). And of course is someone who has prepared beforehand and thought what is going to express.

I think that there are moments in life for which I thank you for not meditate and prepare my words because I may be impulsive in all my expressions, because if I have to meditate and prepare in advance what I have to say that I would leave a surface Do not know.

From depends if you use for good or bad words, the reaction of you heard you indicate whether you aclararte better or not.

A kiss Svetlana, my girl.

A simple apprentice, Caladier.

Jul 05, 2008, 03:02 AM [Reply]

We can feel that we cannot see .

Aug 13, 2008, 07:53 AM [Reply]

Hi Svetlana. True to form, your posts are yet again inspiring. I am reminded of a few trains of thought, firstly that quantity is important: we can use an huge amount of words to try to express all our feelings and desires and end up achieving far less than the right words in the right number (not this is a good example of that!). Secondy, and prompted by 'freakist', in a non-freaky kind of way, I must say I disagree: most of us no matter how hard we try are poor listeners, and do not easily associate action with a single request. With all children we must be as persistent at communicating to them as they are at getting that lolly in the supermarket checkout. I have found in my working life that building in repetition during a discussion creates emphasis and understanding with others. This overcomes inattention and poor listening. Thirdly, and probably the most interesting, I recently attended a mentoring course, where Pilcher Partners presented a diagram of the five levels of communication (adapted from John Powell's Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am"). Level 5, the lowest, is cliche' conversation. People talking without speaking and hearing without listening. "Nice day today". "Yes". Level 4 is reporting the facts, gossip. Give nothing and expect nothing in return. "Forecast 25 degrees". "And showers tomorrow". Level 3 is ideas and judgement. I tell you what I think. Level 2 is feelings and emotions. I tell you how I feel. and the top: Level 1 is Peak communication, complete emotional and personal communication. Most of this discourse is pitched at level 2-3, the safe place for most blokes! But in the mentoring course we were asked to aim for a higher level. So here's a question for our readers: what type of statements/comments/discussion would give an example of levels 2 and 1?

 

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