In a society where at least 50% of all
marriages end up on divorce and the majority of the remaining couples want to
cut each others fucking head off, I'm still amazed that people wants to get
married.
What is it? Are we programmed to want it? Did
society fuck that much with our heads that most people can not be happy by
their own? Are we really that afraid of loneliness so we prefer to accept crap
from another person just to avoid being lonely?
It is really painful and incredibly stupid to
see how great girls with successful carriers and economical stability feel
unhappy just because they don't have a dick to call their own. They dream of a
wedding, the white dress and the immaculate veil although most of them had been
fucked more times than the third world countries. Why they can not be complete
by their own? Too many romantic movies finally shoot down their sanity?
And what about men feeling less masculine if
they aren't someone's prince charming? If a man is not married within a certain
age, so he must be gay! Society can not accept men who don't want to "plant"
their seed and have children or god forbid!, a men who actually enjoys to be
alone! That can't be!
I don't care if people wants to waste their
life in unhappy marriages, but what I can not stand is the social agenda which
turns single successful people into pariahs. These agendas are numerous, so to
avoid a longer post, I'll talk about them later.
So maybe Chris Rock was right when in one of
his live performances he said: "There are two options in life: single and
lonely or married and bored". What I don't understand is why people
automatically assume that loneliness is a bad thing...there can be happiness
outside the cliché...or not?...and more important...Is happiness really inside the cliché?...the
numbers say otherwise...what do you think?
Song: Married With Children Theme
